Keeping the door cracked

[beckyb]

Well, H has forced my hand and my L will be sending his L a divorce settlement proposal this week. This makes me sad, and mad. It's just like him to let things go so long that I have to take care of them.

I really need to get the house listed in mid-February. H has indicated we will not agree on a split. So I need to get the process going now to make sure we have an agreement in time.

My friend warned me that people change during a divorce. That is so true. In the beginning he wanted things easy - no need for a lawyer. Now, who knows what he is going to ask form. It's so sad.