GB - I know the OM vaguely over the last 6 years as his D went to the same school as my S11.

Since W told me about him being a 'good friend' about 4 weeks ago I have met him twice and he asked via FB to be my 'friend'.

If I confront her she will say I am paranoid, 'he is just a good friend' 'ok I flirt with him a bit so what?? I flirt with lots of men' etc

Deflect and deny.

I am reading Sandi2s thread but initially it concerns the sitch where the A is out in the open and W cant deny.

How do I confront her without showing I hacked her FB messenger?

Me49 W45
T15 M13
S11 S8
BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12
Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12
W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing!
May-Oct14 drifting
Dec 14 W agrees to more QT
BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY
W filed 1/25/16