OK I've bought the voice recorder and will set it up at the weekend.

Ive calmed down a bit and recognise this stuff for what it is 'an EA'.

I've analysed the FB messenger transcripts (3 screenshots).

He is a lot more into her than she is into him.

Caveat: First there is not a lot of FB messenger conversation as I think they only use FB messenger when he has broken/lost his phone. So most of their stuff is by text or phone call. I know she regularly rings him when she is driving home.

It only starts on 2nd Nov and there is a big gap from 10th - 18th.

W doesnt say 'ILY, 'cant wait to see you' 'shall we meet...' or anything about meeting up. No endearments though She does sign off two( out of 10) replies with 'xx' but most women do that. I have female friends who do it to me.

The most incriminating sentence from W is 'Missing You (name) ...and a teary emoticon (no kisses).... that was last night FFS!!

On the other hand he says 'you are a very funny and beautiful lady and I love you loads' ....would love to know what his partner would think of that..wanker.

He also mocks me, about how he has friended me on FB and it takes the pressure off W

I don't think there is a PA, but I will snoop some more.

W knows that someone has hacked her account - how?? she changed the password 30 mins after I had changed it.

She then rang me twice and texted me and later tagged me in a FB post.


What do I do? I will read Sandi2s WW threads again and plan.






Last edited by isittoolate; 11/23/15 10:56 PM.

Me49 W45
T15 M13
S11 S8
BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12
Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12
W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing!
May-Oct14 drifting
Dec 14 W agrees to more QT
BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY
W filed 1/25/16