Sandi, when my H ended his EA he did it by phone and I was upset because I wanted it to be via email with me cc'd or at least forwarded. I was upset because H at the time was not even speaking to me, and she got a phone call. But now that it is over, I am glad that she does not have a letter or email from him. She cannot hold it, re-read it, share it with her friends and wonder if she can read between the lines, and especially a written letter, she cannot hold it knowing that his hands were holding it too. Does that make me crazy? At the time I thought a phone call was more personal, but its done, once he hung up she had nothing to hold on to.
Well, except for all the romantic loving texts and emails up until that point. What do I know. At the very least I know there is no "letter" out there in her hands that says "My insanely jealous wife is making me break up with you, and you know that isn't what I want, but I have to do it because of my kids, maybe some day.....etc etc." Does that make any sense?
