She's thinking of leaving again

[Sherman333]

There's no 100% right or wrong answer. [censored] I know. Take the statements below with a grain of salt. I haven't read your sitch. But just the last couple of posts.

I didn't cut ties with family, pbut picked and chose what events I did. If it's something I wanted to, I did it without considering if the ex was going to be there. This way you can't be painted as the problem.

As for splitting finances and she's living with the OM? At this point you need to move to protect your son and yourself. Why are you waiting? Your partially funding things.

As for support, consult an attorney ASAP to understand your rights, etc. make plans tor you and your son ahead of time on what you want for you based on this information. Also get to know the laws in your state that determine custody.

Oh, and a word of caution for my threads if you venture to look, my ex is "high conflict" so I'm in a different position. But there's some good advice peppered in it (or least I think so... ;))