Also, you may want to add a signature to your profile? It helps others to see your ages, your kids' ages, BD date, etc.
If you decide you want to add one, click the "my stuff" button to the right of "forum list" and then click on "edit profile." At the bottom you will see the square where you can add your signature.
Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced
