Originally Posted By: AU Bob
Most of the friends I have are women. They have offered to go for dinner see a movie etc, but I know one on one is not good.

So how can you make NEW friends? Sounds like you should go out and join something NEW.

Originally Posted By: AU Bob
It really sux that WW, WAS can do it, and the one left behind has to be a saint, I mean six months of not having female company is a drag, I mean I wish she was still here and I was doing stuff with her but she is gone and who knows if we will ever R.

You are free to do whatever you want. It's not about 'being a saint'. It's about taking actions that get your closer to your goals. If your goal is to "sleep with a woman", then your latest actions are probably not getting you closer to that. If your goal is to reconcile with your W, then they probably are.

So, what do you WANT?

Originally Posted By: AU Bob
They really seem to have it all while they are FREE, and we just have to suffer, I wonder if the ones that do ever R understand the sacrifice their LBS has had to endure?

You dont have to suffer. If you do this right, then you really WONT suffer after a while. But you actually have to get out there and DO it...