Thanks so much for the vote of confidence guys - I truly appreciate it - and I return the compliment too...

Not much happening with me. I've had a bit of contact with H - all initiated by him and all WRT the house. Seems we had a viewer who likes it and may make a low ball offer. We're not that interested and have fed that back to the agent. All comms with H are pretty brief and pleasant. I have become mistress of the pleasant one/two-liner grin

It was a nice weekend. Went out with a girlfriend yesterday for the day and we had some laughs. Her life is a little full of drama and mine seems pretty tame by comparison!!

Saw nice guy at work today and had a little chat. Not seen him for weeks due to his work schedule. He seems pretty shy and I'm being quite upfront and friendly with him. Whenever I do see him, I feel I want to just throw in the towel and move on from grotty H and his MLC/OW. But, I know it is still early days and I am still a married woman and healing from a trauma, so I'll carry on as I am for now. Chatty, friendly, friends only.

Tomorrow night is Divorce Recovery group and Thursday is our Thanksgiving dinner (my first ever....I'm from the UK.)

Anyway, that's the update in a nutshell. PMA has been pretty good and not thinking about H too much. D things still awaiting this further £ info from his side, but I don't push for that. This is very much a 'sit back' D from my end.

Also, met with my yoga break friend for lunch. We're narrowed down to two options now - both of which I can do. She'll speak to her H and get back to me....excited!!

Take care all xx

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T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus