Had to text W to tell S and I were hoping to join a gym( unfortunately he can't until next year) and I wouldn't be going to class this week. I mentioned I was going to buy clothes he needs for a trip. . She immediately replied Can I shop with him.i'd like to see you both tonight when you go to the gym. S agreed to shop some day with her. We ignored the suggestions to meet. Sounds like she misses us. Some cousins are also here in town for one night only. I declined invite to meet as W also going along. Looking at my last 3 or 4 posts... Am I doing the right things?