I know now that I need to remove myself as fully from her life and sight as I can, while still being a great dad.
The fact that you have kids will make that part so difficult. I struggle with that myself because if the W does go ahead and file, then I don't want her in my life. Didn't sign up to be buddies... But, she will always be there because of the kids. Sickens me how she thinks the kids will be not affected.
Being a great Dad should be your number 1, and you have that down. Just focus on you and them. She may/may not come around, but get yourself where you need to be!
Last edited by Spiff69; 11/23/1503:51 PM.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.