Sorry to hear about the paperwork, dday. That's rough, I remember when my first marriage fell apart and getting those papers.
I'm going to suggest going dark. You can't trust anything that comes out of your wife's mouth, even when she's nice to you.
She might be scheming you so you will concede everything in a divorce. DO NOT fall for that crap! My ex-wife did the same exact thing.
Go dark, only talk to her about the kids and do not extend convo's or talk about your relationship.
If she texts you about anything other than your kids, don't respond. Keep the convo about the kids and if the convo starts to drift to any other topic, cut it off.
She wants a divorce? Then let her feel the full weight of not talking to you or using you as a friend. No more favors. Be cordial with her but act like you are moving on. Like you have a crush on some new hottie at work.
Don't beleive anything she says, that all a bunch of horsesh!t that she tells herself so she doesn't have doubts about what she's doing.
Your sitch is far from over, my friend. Hang in there.
