So H told his mom he would prefer I didn't attend their Thanksgiving, but he would be civil if I came. His family says I am more than welcome. I am really torn on what to do. I would like to go, but I don't want to give him another reason to be mad at me. On the other hand, he is going to be mad at me whatever I do, so maybe I should just do what I want without thinking of how he feels. Does anyone have any advice here?
Apparently he also admitted that he left because of his "friend." It is surprising to me that he finally admitted it. He would always talk about how important loyalty and trust were to him. I guess he was wrong or that was all talk.
