Apart from the problem of New Year I've been thinking about more practical issues. At the moment our finances are shared. I check the different accounts each week and send her a summary. So far no problems but would you think about formalizing a separation of accounts and asking for a contribution for S15? Or is it still early? Just focus on GAL and getting her out of my head? Any advice on either problem would be appreciated! Friends say I'm mor in control than the first days but it all feels so raw still.
