Hi Heather- I am in the thick of it: living with my MLCer who never moved out. You have really come such a long way. WOW!! You are a WONDERFUL inspiration to us, to your daughters and to yourself!

I do believe he sees you all have moved on. He got the vibe when he pinged D21.

Just chiming in that words are just words. When my H talks I validate but I also hear the teacher from the Peanuts cartoons: wah wah wah wah wah...

Step on the gas pedal!!!

Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced