Becky, I am sure you are being hard on yourself. None of us is perfect. If he had issues with you he should have spoken with you about them and set up an appointment for MC. Not cheated on you. There is no excuse for that.

The blackberry cocktail sounds delicious.

Stay away from married men, they might seem harmless but haven't you been on this board long enough to know better! LOL! They are the worst.