Thanks mutatio- I appreciate your input. You write with much thought and intention. It is inspirational to read some of your posts. I am really not too sure how to "work on me" having a full time job, 5 kids and a dog keeps me busy - sometimes this is good but other times I feel like my life is passing me by.
I have not been successful with detaching from H. Being together 33 years he is very much a part of me and he cut me off/out cold turkey Just now he is texting me and I want to answer but all the advice I am getting is saying not to It is very hard.
The kids and I are going to go to a movie tonight. Is that considered GALing??? Or do I have to do things on my own?
