Well, after looking at the settlement offer, I am not pleased. So, I talked to W. She said that rumors (from a person she described as a sh1tstirrer) made her move ahead with the settlement papers. W said that she kept thinking that she would realize that she still loves me, or respects me a s a person. Then said she doesn't. Says that I started working on myself at the same time she gave up.
The settlement, I have no clue where they get their idea of equal. It appears to me that W will end up about 40-60k ahead of me. Doesn't quite seem equal. She keeps everything that aren't my tools and guns, and is 50 from everything paid off. I get my 401k. W keeps hers.
W said that there were things in agreement that she didn't like either. So she wants me to make notes on the papers, and give them back to her. See if we can find a place that we both see as fair.
And, W just called me again. Told me that you don't know what the future will bring. Grrrr
35 3 boys Not my circus, not my monkeys anymore....
