My FIL came into town yesterday and as a boundary in our separation my FIL was supposed to be away from us for a year. Guess who my H11 brought over to see the boys? ( backstory my fil triggers me for a past molestation when I was 14) So my H comes in all smug and ready to fight and what do I do? I do a 180 welcome him and lay the truth on my FIL. I did not hide or run > I faced him and told him. His presence makes me feel violated to the point of vomiting. I confronted my fear and anxiety was able to talk it out with him and at the same time not give my H the fight he was pulling me into.
