My W is off to see the local council tomorrow. They have placed her on the homeless list. They will, so my W informs me, place he in a hotel, temporary accommodation or a council property. Again, W tells me, they will store and move her stuff for her, so, bingo, she's a winner.
I have got myself a two bedroomed flat. I don't need two, one would have done, but, it is my fallback position, should everything go 't1ts up' for her; there will be somewhere for her to sleep and nobody under my watch will be going without.
She isn't going to flee. If you read some of my posts from the last week, she is currently rope pulling like it's going out of fashion. She's in 'pity me' mode and won't accept that everything that is going on is being driven by her. Just to remind everybody, it was my W's idea to sell the house in the first place and she couldn't care less if I was going to be made homeless or not.
Further on today, I have brought a van from work and am clearing rubbish from the house. Well, I say rubbish, it's stuff neither of us want. I asked her who was going to move the furniture etc. as I was going to offer to help. Instead, I got abuse and then entitlement disease when she said 'the Council will HAVE to give me a big storage unit and they will HAVE to move my stuff. W then tried to tell me when I would be getting the children. I have already started to look at L advice for this matter.
So, I hear what you say Sotto, but I just can't continue trying to help somebody who doesn't want to be helped. W will have to realise things herself. At the end of the day, there will be a roof for everybody, but I'm not going to get beaten every day for doing the best that I can.
Last edited by Huddy; 11/22/1506:43 PM.
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015
