Mleigh, I don't post as much any more, but I keep up with your story. You amaze me. You are rocking this situation and treating your H with so much respect. Here's a big hug and an Atta Girll! Keep up the boundaries. I think they are serving you well. To have a child thrive in the midst of MLC is AMAZING.

The place I'm aiming for... To be this ok when he rejects me, or anyone rejects me. I'm good when validated and feeling confident.

I want to feel good in my skin even when the door is slammed In my face. Internal validation.

"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man

“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson