Hi Huddy, just to clarify (in case it appears that way) I don't think for a moment you aren't putting your kids first. You're the one trying to keep the family together after all here.

It's more around my concern that your W doesn't seem to have her chit together on moving out and you haven't seen a L or clarified S arrangements.

My concern is your W may flee with the kids to her parents hundreds of miles away as she has previously suggested if she doesn't have a viable option locally and I think that's the last thing you want from what you posted.

How do you think this is going to play out if she can't afford to get herself set up??

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

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