Huddy, I'm concerned about your sitch and the imminence of moving day. How long away is it now? And does your W have any place to stay yet? Can she actually afford a place to stay? If she can't, what does that mean for your kids. If you guys had no kids, yes you could leave her to her own devices - but with young kids in the mix I think you need to have confirmed arrangements in place.
My worry is - what will happen when she falls flat on her face? Move to her parents would be my guess and you don't want that to happen. It's in your interests I think for her to have a secure place to stay. If she doesn't have funds, might she get free legal advice then come after you for some support? It concerns me that you have no agreed separation arrangements in place. Who will pay what? How can you both afford to get a place? Who will have then kids when?
I worry that you are facing a S where your kids are not yet provided for on both sides and I do think you need some L advice and that is an urgent priority now. It sounds like your W is in some denial - but I worry that you may be in denial too, and move out date is approaching fast. I can see a case from her stacking up against you - he just put all my bills in a box and didn't seem bothered that me and the kids had nowhere to stay. He just got himself sorted and didn't care about what happened to us and so on.
I actually think it is in your and the kids best interests if you get some arrangements agreed as to how this is actually going to work when you S.
I hope this isn't OTT, but it's been on my mind lately....
Take care
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