Hi Scrant, I don't think 'accept some invites etc' really applies in your situation. I think you are in LRT territory as you have S and your W is living with OM.

Have a look that that section again and follow the advice there. Ask yourself - if I was really enjoying my new single life, how would I be interacting with my W? To me, that looks like not even noticing you have a text for a few hours and replying briefly but pleasantly if it is a business thing. Aim for brief, pleasant and a little distant - rather than curt. But I wouldn't respond to 'non-essential' texting as I do think your W is trying to cake eat and I think you've enabled that with the kissing and hugging (don't intend any offense here....just saying..)

So, have a good look at what LRT entails and apply that to the letter. I think GB posted a helpful link to LRT in a post to Jpeg recently...

Take care smile

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

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