She sent texts about S's game to family group. S replied briefly. Am I doing the right thing by trying to have little or no contact? In the book it talks about accepting some invitations from partner when they seem interested but as S wouldn't to and she still is with OM it seems more like cake eating. How do you show partner you are GAL if you go dark? This week I probably won't go to class with her as I have a works lunch beforehand so don't want to turn up with my guard down! Also thought it would be good to extend the NC a little. It has only been five weeks. Is near silence the way to go or will she think I've changed in a negative way? She's used to me being friendly and loving but now when she texts me I limit myself to the minimum response. When you don't see someone you have no ideas what they are thinking or feeling.
