Something I am realizing--which will help me not respond anymore--is that I am not even dealing with him anymore, but with a jealous OW.

I am done with the marriage, but no matter what I try to do to make for an amicable co-parent relationship gets twisted into some admonishing and very feminine sounding rant about what an unfit mother I am, with my name misspelled. Now I laugh. Someone must be cowering in a corner and it sure isn't me.

From here on in all communication will happen through lawyers and the kids' therapist.

Last edited by mustardseed; 11/22/15 04:59 AM.
40s 2teens M14Y
BD-10/12/13 rec-1/14
BD2-5/14 rec2-9/14
EA disc-10/14 4/15-BD 3 and triangulation ensues
Served with D6/15 MS forced to leave7/15
D agreement signed 8/16 final 5/17