Sometimes I see a similarity and then sometimes I will read something by a male poster about his wife and realize that I was pretty awful too.
I have no Intel whatsoever and that makes it difficult for me because to me cheating is black and white and then I know to proceed agressively and with my own interests at heart. When I think I was at fault, or contributed greatly I feel like I want to try to keep things amicable.
You are right. my emotions are keeping me from seeing the bigger picture. The bigger picture is that I need to move on, and this legal crap is my reality and can't be denied anymore.
I don't want him as official enemy.
He has been nice and we have not had too many conflicts as of yet. Especially now that I know he does not want reconciliation.
He knows he will lose financially. He has pointed it out numerous times, so will this really be a big surprise to him?
Last edited by JulieH; 11/22/1503:02 AM.
Me: 42 H: 43 Twins age 5 Physically Separated 7/2015
