Wayward Wife, my addiction, advice needed

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Sandi
My thoughts with a letter is that it may not come across as direct or firm as a call. Sure you can write firm statements such as "DO NOT CONTACT ME" but on the phone the OM can hear the voice tone. They can hear the regret and guilt over the A in her voice. They can hear the firmness and unwavering decision to choose the H. There is also the "I never received it" or "it got lost in the mail" excuses.

As far as the boundary....will she respect it. Sure the H needs to have this boundary and maintain this boundary but will she respect the boundary when stated. Wouldn't the boundary carry more weight if reinforced by the Pastor?