Therapy is tough work focus22. My therapist keeps me focused on me when I often want to focus on my wife. She keeps making the point that I cannot focus on things that are out of my control. I have had many days in the last year in which I felt like I had accomplished something by just getting cleaned up and dressed. I have found myself literally telling my right foot to move in front of the left on and then telling the left foot to move. I learned during my illness that there is something known as "living in cancer time". Throw my wife leaving on top of that and many days I have simply been unable to function. Many days seem to last forever. The best ones are the days in which I keep myself very busy. I can tell you that I don't know how I could have made it without the help of the people on this board and the friends that I have developed here. God Bless you and do one thing tomorrow that is just for you. Maybe something small but something that occupies your mind for a bit.
M:53 W:47 M:15 years. S:18 S's: 30 & 28 from previous marriage. BD: 3/14 Divorced January 17.
