Mutatio, thank you for the kind words. As of right now, I am handling it pretty well. I don't want it, but I know it is not my choice. Apparently I have detached way better than I had thought. I will survive this. I feel as ok with this as I can be.

I feel like now, I can move forward. With her decision being made, I can move forward for my boys and myself and not worry about her reactions. I'm sure looking through the settlement papers will be a whole range of emotions. Our entire past and lives put into a stack of papers.

Oh well, that is the battle of tomorrow.

I will always love the girl I married. Wish I could have found her again.

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3 boys
Not my circus, not my monkeys anymore....