Dday, I sorry to hear that news. You must be struggling with this revelation, I would. Your wife must be struggling and this is hard for her too. Maybe that's why she called. To blow up your family is a big deal for most people. I know you know this but I'll say it anyway, it ain't over till it's over. Please keep acting like the strong kind man you are. If your angry go chop some wood, take a run, something like that.

Your best chance is to detach and behave well. Treat her like a friendly neighbor. Other then the kids I would not share anything with her. There are people here that will give you experienced advice. Hang in there dday.



“Character is destiny” Heraclitus