Ive noticed that also in my xh eyes as well as ow
be4 he left and recently in pictures

He is not there either

they are a bit creepy..both of them and dark

I also would not change anything
Looking back I think XH leaving was the best for all of us

married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow