Interesting Tad. I am very glad somebody else articulated that same thing. I sometimes wondered if it was just me that saw that.
My ex's eyes literally changed color from blue to green, at least when we were still talking/together. In photos with my kids she looks so much different. The other day, I drove past her while she was running (she lives a few blocks away, but we rarely see each other) and it wasn't until my son called and asked me what I was doing with the house that I realized it was her I passed.

I used to wonder if it is her that changed or my perception of her that causes her to look differently to me. Any more I wonder why I think about it wink

Getting out. That's an interesting thing, Tad. I wonder if it is just that you are not who you used to be. You used to be who you needed to be to succeed. Now you seem to be looking for that balance.

And yeah, it is the dark that helps us see the light isn't it? I wouldn't change a thing in my life. Not a step and not a decision. I'm grateful for it just like it is.

Peace,
AJ


"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK
Put the glass down...
"Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world
Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."