Focus22 it has helped me to gain clarity about my wife in a couple of encounters with women who are attached. I was suddenly in the shoes of the man who is involved with my wife. The impact of knowing what an affair would do to the family of those women came rushing to me. A thought also came to me that if she would do it to that man then she would do it to me. I also felt a terrible shame in having let an encounter with her enter my mind. It put the morals of a cheater perfectly in perspective. For me I am thankful that my standards are what they are and I will not cross that line. A moment of growth for shotgun!
M:53 W:47 M:15 years. S:18 S's: 30 & 28 from previous marriage. BD: 3/14 Divorced January 17.
