So I had a brief chat with H last night. I've been thinking a lot about CS these last few days and decided I would give him the CS worksheet I filled out for our state. I did that last night so I have at least opened up the conversation. I will give it a week or so to see how he chooses to proceed. If there is still no action, I will find a lawyer to help me.

Our conversation got a little shanghaied because apparently OW is having complications with her pregnancy and he is very worried about that. He was obviously upset about this and I know it is something he feared a lot when I was pregnant - that something would be wrong with the baby. I offered my support ( not that it meant anything to him) and then we went into the event for our kids.

He did ask me why I don't talk to him anymore so at least I know that he has noticed. He also bowed out of the family outing for tonight which I totally expected and left me feeling relieved honestly. Progress for me, I think!


Me 40 XH 40
M16 T18
D13
D10
BD 5/2/2015
Divorced 7/7/16