Just caught up with your new thread. I understand your views but you have to realise that no matter what happens between the two of you, your H is responsible for bring up our two lovely boys. By law he has no choice. I think your H reacts the way it is because you are setting boundaries and you are in the process of becoming a new super, confident Julie and he doesn't like that.
You really need CS to help you to bring your kids up. Let your L deals with everything. Keep your chin up. You are an amazing woman :-)
