I'll be a really good partner for my next H though!
Ain't that the truth?
Sidestepping - It is good to read many on here that have an opportunity to find this early enough and some even with S @ home. How I wish. Detaching is a roadblock for me so maybe my sitch is better suited for my issues anyhow.
PS: I just figured out how to quote
Good job on the quoting 2.0! It took me forever to figure that out. The problem with the next partner is that I would only want another DB'er. Imagine going through this whole journey, working on yourself, going through hell, and then you end up with a smooth-talking wayward again. I figure the people left for me to date will either be waywards, LBS's who haven't done "the work" and are probably emotionally wrecked from the experience, or DB'ers who are emotionally grown up now. The problem is they will all come across as charming until you really get to know them, and that might be when they walk out again on their next spouse.
We should have a secret handshake or something so when we get out in the dating world we know who we can trust!
