I know dealing with A is unbelievably emotional. There is no excuse for it, none. But there are many contributing factors for it. When you are able to (hopefully soon) focus on the contributing factors and drop the thoughts of the A. All of them. You can do it if you try very hard.

You will be better for it. Not your M, not your S, you will be better for it.


Me: 42
H: 45
M: 18 yrs T: 20 yrs
D: 17
D: 15
S: 12
I kicked him out 8/21/15
I will DB until March 21st 2017, that is it!