O, if we had stumbled on this pre-BD would we have really given it proper attention? I think sadly we needed the BD as a wake up call. We weren't paying attention to our own lives. Or maybe we just took things for granted. Not that we deserved any of this, of course. Up until the actual BD, even literally 5 minutes before BD, I would have bet my life that H would NEVER do this to me.
Agreed. I remember thinking a few weeks before I asked my H to leave if maybe I should come on here and just check things out. But I was 100% sure the M was dead, so instead I asked him to move out...
Me: 42 H: 45 M: 18 yrs T: 20 yrs D: 17 D: 15 S: 12 I kicked him out 8/21/15 I will DB until March 21st 2017, that is it!
