Pho, I think that is an excellent idea. I just don't know how to even approach that in a counseling situation - its not like you can contact the counselor about it ahead of time. Well, maybe you can if both also see the MC independently, too. Sure can't bring it up with the spouse in the room!

As I have said in my threads, the SIL and I don't quite get along but have been a lot better lately. Heck, a few months ago she added me as a family member on face book. Somehow, I think its all a game. I have seen the texts. I have seen the messages. She sure is telling the W that the grass is greener.

Last edited by Spiff69; 11/20/15 07:24 PM.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.