Hi Sandi2

Next time it happens I will. I will set a boundary ' I will not listen to you speak to me in that disrespectful manner, especially in front of the children. If it continues I will get up and walk away.

She can justify the above 'complaints' by saying it's not about me exclusively and it's stuff she has complained about for years. Like leaving the toilet seat up smile

All petty minor stuff. Her biggest gripe is the Xmas arrangements with my sister and frankly I agree with her, but I have always been sensitive to her criticism of my family, mainly because I feel impotent to change my family. Since my mother died, links with my family have reduced. Partly that is my fault as W had requested that we do more stuff with my family.

Last edited by isittoolate; 11/20/15 06:38 PM.

Me49 W45
T15 M13
S11 S8
BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12
Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12
W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing!
May-Oct14 drifting
Dec 14 W agrees to more QT
BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY
W filed 1/25/16