I know what not to do! LOL. I noticed this when W started spending all of her time witht the friend. It bothered me a lot. I made passive aggressive comments about it and it slowly blew up.

Funny thing is I have taken time since then and looked back. i wish i was more of a friend to W's friend and that may have helped.

I think she knew it bothered me back then and stayed away.

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15