SciDad,
Welcome. I hope you will learn as much as I have here. I guess start by letting everyone know what you are trying to accomplish. The i hope Azzork will show up and give his kind 2x4's to you about focusing on yourself and making sure you are not focusing too much on your W

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15