So just had an interesting encounter. I have mentioned before that W best friend is going through divorce. I actually thought she already was but apparently it is not complete yet. Still think she is not a great influence. Anyway, she is a notary and was the one notarizing our agreement. I needed to initial a new spot and so our kids go to the same preschool so i was meeting her there to do this.
So i get there and she says to me how come you cant be my ex husband. I did not know what to say to that so I said nothing. Apparently he is dragging things out and wants to go back about the kids situation again.

She then asks me about how the kids are dealing with everything. Now understand that her and W TM or talk about 1000 times a day. So i kind just paused and thought for a second and then asked dont you and W talk about it. She said well yeah but....I said look I am not going to say something that is against what she is telling you and seem like i am trying to make up a story or pull a guilt card. She said no, that they dont discuss it that much. So i told her how i think it is for them from my experiences. She said she knows and she can tell from how the kids are and has seen it herself. She tried to tell me that she told W that if kids wanted to go with her ex more she would not stop them. I didnt respond.

we kept talking about a few things and then she brings up that she still thinks it will work out for us. I was kind of shocked. I was very careful about how i responded. All i said is you never know with life. I said a year ago i never thought i be like this, who knows what will be a year from now. She agreed and said she was floored when she found out. She then again said she thinks it will work out and she will think differently. I said who knows, but i cant hang my hat on that and just sit around waiting. She agreed.

Not sure what to think of all of that, actually I do. I am going to think nothing of it. I just know I was careful what to say as I am sure everything will get back to her.

anyway, time to keep moving.

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15