Vise
I wish i had an answer for this. I am unsure what we are doing as well. Now that we are not living together it may be a little easier decision, but i have a divorced friend that said this year we should still have xmas at the same house for the kids. I am unsure.

when still living together i think we would have done what we always have. I know going to the inlaws will be awkward but this is for the kids.

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15