do nothing or what

[Zephyr]

Plus I fully understand that the issue isbetween me and W.

I really need help today.

so you know where I am on this, you don't need me to post a novella, I just have a couple of questions to ponder...

What IS the fundamental issue then (from HER perspective, I know yours)?

What has been missing in your R with wife that she needs to talk to someone else?

What can you do to improve on THAT or to infuse some of what she is missing into your R!!!

Mark

And I am sorry about the focus at work, I wish I had any semblance of an answer for you there...I am the worst