"Snooping does not help. It does not make you feel better or give you real answers. If you find something, then you need to keep looking for more, if you do not find something, then you think you missed it and you need to keep snooping. Also whatever you do find you will not be able to get out of your head. Do not snoop."
Man was that a tough lesson to learn. I kept putting my hand on the hot stove. Over and over and . . .
