I see some positive things in your sitch happening right now.
The squirrel (your w) is starting to trust you and eat out of your palm. Is it the right time to grab the squirrel?
I know that patience is a tough one. That was so hard for me too.
If you feel confident that you will get a favorable response, then maybe ask to meet for a coffee. But don't show all your cards. Don't even bring up reconciliation. Just go and have a good time chatting with no mention of the relationship.
The timetable you have set regarding the holidays could be a big backslide IMO.
