V ~ just wanted to say, it's all perspective. The first post you wrote me I perceived as being very 2 by 4 ish ( as they say here) - but maybe that is what I needed. Your most recent post was very comforting and really helped ( they both helped!) When I read GB's post to Mahhty I thought "I love this guy" I totally related to his pragmatism. I also connected with that
Everyone has different gifts and the more we can all share then the more we benefit