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[vise82]

Hey OhGreat,

I will look into the options for the two signatures. I think I am going to get a budget for the family together. She was asking me for solutions a couple of weeks ago. Her focus on herself is not good if she is in a place to make decisions for the family.

Hey Mutatio,

Yes those are great reasons to wear your ring but for reaching your goal of saving the MR how does it help you? I am not sure the rope can be dropped with out removing the ring.

Hey IITL,

We do seem to be in the same place in our sit at times. I see similarities. Some how my W has managed to keep me down as the man I was. This was talked about in my thread with Sandi. W was not treating me like someone who truly loved me. She kept me away from my passion. Just looking back I see red flags that I should have seen, my family did not like her, she isolated me from my friends. But yet after all that I found out I still want to be with her.

My W was saying near BD that we are not good married together. Just WW talk.

Hey Sandi,

The out of practice comment, I think I should confront her about it. ask her what she meant by saying that. I did nothing wrong she was within earshot so it should be fair game to mention? I would have to via text or email because the party is tonight. I point out that it is not a good idea to see other people right now if we are to give this S any chance at helping us R and that we are still married. Just put it to her that I know what she is thinking and let her thoughts take it from there.