Hey V, I just wanted to mention that I read that thread. I do not agree with the way gb bashes your approach. Period. There are better ways to say, 'I don't agree with V'. Period.
You have to do what makes you feel emotionally safe. That is first and foremost.
I will say There are A LOT of folks here who care for you very deeply, crazy since none of us have ever met or even know really squat about each other.
I hope today is a good day for you, I will have some breakfast tea instead of my second cup of coffee this morning and put you in my thoughts as I get the boys ready for school.